The role of parents in the education of children in modern times in the light of Quran and Sunnah

عصر حاضر میں اولاد کی تربیت میں والدین کا کردار قرآن وسنت کی روشنی میں

Authors

  • Arif Hussain M.Phil. Research Scholar, Department of Islamic Studies, Faculty of Social Sciences & Humanities, Hamdard University Karachi.
  • Dr. Muhammad Atif Aftab Chairman & Associate Professor, Department of Islamic Studies, Faculty of Social Sciences & Humanities, Hamdard University Karachi, Pakistan.

Keywords:

Parenting Role in Islam, Child Upbringing in the Light of Quran and Sunnah, Islamic Guidelines for Modern Parenting, Contemporary Challenges in Child Education, Parental Responsibilities in Islamic Teachings

Abstract

The upbringing of children has always been a cornerstone of societal development, and in contemporary times, the role of parents has become even more crucial due to the multifaceted challenges posed by modernity. This study examines the parental responsibilities and their impact on children’s upbringing, as guided by the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah, and their relevance to contemporary challenges Utilizing a qualitative research methodology, this study delves into Islamic primary sources, including Quranic verses and Prophetic traditions, to analyse the foundational principles of parental roles in nurturing ethical, moral, and spiritual values in children. The research also draws insights from classical Islamic scholarship and integrates perspectives from modern sociological and psychological frameworks to contextualize the findings.  The study identifies key parental responsibilities, such as providing moral guidance, ensuring. Religious education, fostering emotional well-being, and safeguarding children against harmful influences. Furthermore, it highlights how contemporary challenges like digital exposure, declining family structures, and evolving cultural dynamics impact the traditional roles of parents.   The findings suggest that the Quran and Sunnah provide timeless guidelines for addressing these challenges, emphasizing the importance of intentional parenting, role modelling, and the active inculcation of Islamic values. The study also underscores the significance of strengthening family bonds and aligning modern parenting practices with Islamic principles to ensure a balanced upbringing.  This research contributes to the academic discourse by offering actionable insights for parents, educators, and policymakers, aiming to bridge the gap between traditional Islamic teachings and contemporary parenting practices. It concludes with practical recommendations for fostering a robust Islamic family system that effectively addresses the challenges of the modern age.

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Published

2024-12-30

How to Cite

Hussain, A. ., & Aftab, D. M. A. . (2024). The role of parents in the education of children in modern times in the light of Quran and Sunnah: عصر حاضر میں اولاد کی تربیت میں والدین کا کردار قرآن وسنت کی روشنی میں. Al Khadim Research Journal of Islamic Culture and Civilization, 5(4), 1–40. Retrieved from http://arjicc.com/index.php/arjicc/article/view/350

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